Through this book we can get the conversations going about kissing. This act of affection and desire, curiosity and intrigue that we rarely investigate further really deserves more discussion. Let’s use our lips and tongues, our mouths collectively as we kiss and talk about kissing. Shall we?
I highly recommend these quick stories that leave you longing for your very own cowboy.
We Love Kink on Cowboy Heat
We read five words on the first page of a really good novel and we begin to forget that we are reading printed words on a page; we begin to see images.
It’s always easy to dismiss relationship and sex guides as remedial - unnecessary for anyone who already considers themselves an adventurous libertine. The reality is that developing relationship skills is lifetime work, our sexual needs and practices change over time, and each new relationship has its own unique lessons.
What we view onscreen affects many aspects of our sexuality, such as what we can reasonably expect from our partners, how we understand and learn about our own sexuality, and what we perceive as “normal,” healthy, consensual sex. Perhaps no one takes this responsibility as seriously as queer and feminist pornographers. Their work may not yet be considered culturally acceptable, but perhaps one day, it — and the various expressions of their sexuality — will be.
I adored living vicariously through each of these characters, and this book helped me appreciate the magic, the love, that can occur between strangers as well as lifetime partners.
The bottom line is, figuring out what we want out of sex (and when) is one thing, but sharing that information is another skill set that we each have to navigate. Maybe you really do have a headache once in a while, but for the other times, learning how to be upfront about your reasons and how your libido works can mean a more satisfying experience when you do say yes.